ǑBOĒDĪRE

/oh-beh-deer-ray/ v•
to obey,
listen / harken / submit to,
be subject / responsible / a slave to

Oboedire is an educational and social institution founded in Boorloo.

We are dedicated to the ethical study, practice and advancement of BDSM, power exchange and fetish; As well as human sexuality, consent and interpersonal dynamics.

Learning is never complete.

Curiosity is always welcome.

Respect is always expected.

Our mission is to create spaces where people of all experience levels can learn, connect, and explore with confidence and a guided hand…

In obedientia veritatis.. 

-The OA Team


Frequently Asked Questions

Oboedire is for risk aware, community minded individuals of all experience levels and backgrounds who are interested in the ethical study, practice and advancement of BDSM, power exchange and fetish; as well as human sexuality, consent and interpersonal dynamics.

We believe that Education precedes action, and that
understanding risk is essential before engaging in any physical, psychological or relational practice.

The Academy believes that ethical education contributes to healthier relationships, safer communities and more responsible expressions of power.

Some are, but not all!

Our workshops are tiered based on audience experience levels:
Inceptor: Beginner (101)
Medius: Intermediate (201)
Provectus: Advanced (301)

We believe consent is active, informed, voluntary and ongoing. No dynamic, title or relationship removes the responsibility to obtain, maintain and respect consent.

This reflects heavy emphasis on risk awareness and personal responsibility.

We use vetting forms to gain insight of a person’s practices, basic knowledge , and indications that our tenets have been studied. 

Consider the vetting form as the beginning of a conversation between interested community members and the Oboedire team.
 

Concerns about safety, consent, discrimination, misconduct or inappropriate behaviour will be taken seriously and managed fairly. We welcome raised concern and/or reporting of issues Via the incident report form found on the policy page

A wide range of educators coming from a mixed background of perspectives, knowledge and principles with the intention of providing a diverse range and opinion. Read more Here

Orientation is time set aside before an event starts, to prepare those new to Oboedire spaces, to go over our tenets and any venue relevant info.

For events or workshops with play and/or tools + equipment, Orientation will include etiquette, the requirements of tool and equipment cleaning with our supplied products, and basic health procedures like bodily fluid tracking etc.

All products, materials, and dungeons typically have different requirements so this is how we ensure all members know ours.


We absolutely welcome newcomers to many of our events.

Learning is never complete.

Curiosity is always welcome.

Respect is always expected.

Oboedire is committed to curating learning environments that are welcoming, inclusive and accessible.
Participants are encouraged to be transparent about any and all personal requirements and access needs before attending so that reasonable adjustments can be explored where possible.
Everyone learns differently. Asking for what you need is welcomed and respected. We pride ourselves on being able to offer modifications, alterations, and adjustments across our education, advice and venues.

Oboedire is also committed to curating a culture that is accessible to people with different access needs where possible.
Rapid Antigen Testing for viral illnesses is encouraged before attending shared spaces, and is wearing masks during, in order to include high risk community members, People with chronic illnesses or Immunosuppressed/Immunocompromised folk.
In addition we supply Biocides, PPE and other precautionary measures during events. Our main venue is accessible via standard wheelchair ( including bathroom facilities). We have further details on ticketing platforms.
Note We can only offer limited parking to ACROD permit holders. CARERS OF COMPANION CARD HOLDERS ALWAYS ATTEND FREE

As much as we love play parties, we simply dream of more. Through education, mentorship and research, Oboedire seeks to strengthen both individuals and the communities they help shape.

We welcome enquiries and expressions of interest from aligned Educators, Vendors and Community members. Please see our alignment information below and approach with specifics about what you are able to offer in our form.

Meet The Oboedire Academy Team

Violet Devine

Co-founder & Facilitator

Passionate about education, tradition and community building, Violet brings years of lived experience to their work as a mentor, facilitator, and advocate for more risk aware, informed kink spaces.

Lua Snow

Co-founder & Facilitator

Dedicated to working, advocating, creating, and organising in the broader Kink community, Lua’s work ties together their lifelong disability & queer activism, art practice and love of ritual.

Kitty Du Jour

Educator

Brining down-to-earth, accessible education for all experience levels. Kitty’s interests in psychology, neuro-affirming dynamics and creating connection regardless of physical ability.

Honey Analverkehr

Educator

Driven by her passion for knowledge & advocacy for representation of all body types, Honey seeks to dismantle taboos & empower individuals to embrace their desires with confidence and consent.

Think we may be aligned?

We welcome enquiries and expressions of interest from aligned Educators, Stall Vendors, Skill Sharers, Event Facilitators, Peer Supporters, Panel Hosts, Volunteers, Discussion Holders, Dungeon Monitors, Play Instigators, Conduct Coordinators.

We pay our facilitators and educators adequate compensation for their time and expertise, and provide more opportunities with accommodation partnerships for interstate educators to present in Perth

Get Vetted and Join us at Oboedire