Creating inclusive, community driven bdsm experiences
Vetted & Accessible Spaces
Open Table Discussion Group
Old School open table discussion group with pre-determined topics
Book Club & Library
Accessible kink themed book club and OA Community Library run by Lua
Sponsored Raffle
Support local and enjoy a curated raffle run by a Perth business.
Dungeons & Dragons
Kink themed one shots run by Venus Defendz and Silhouet
Life Drawing Spotlight
Led by our guest Rosy from Rosy’s Curious Sketch Club
Community Swap
Clean clothes/lingerie/
shoes, kink items etc
Boot Blacking
Bring leathers that needs some TLC.
Community release One
The calm before the storm- Enjoy a hot beverage and read in the afternoon sun, quietly body double with a friend or whomever else is around (with their permission of course). You are welcome to also bring some low noise crafts such as knitting. *Note we will be quietly setting up around you
Each book club meeting will endeavour to discuss 2 books, one novel length and one shorter read.
If having a social space to zone out, enjoy a drink and read to yourself is more your vibe- There will be comfortable space for this, Joining in discussions is entirely optional.
All books will be relevant to BDSM relationships, sex, identities and history.
Selections will span fiction, non fiction, autobiographical, poetry, zines and other formats, and may cover hetero and lgbtqia+ perspectives.
We will have opt in discussion on both books, avid readers are welcome to read both, those wanting a shorter commitment may choose the shorter read. Finishing either book is not mandatory for attendance and participation.
Many books written by and for our communities have become harder and harder to access, with unknown futures of censorship and erasure, we value collecting hard copies of media when possible. For our own enjoyment, and to future proof for those after us.
We endeavour to merge our personal collections and build a database for a communal Library.
We will take votes/input at the end of each book club meeting on the next selection of books.
Release 1 Reading list is:
Book option 1
Coming to Power – Writings and Graphics on Lesbian S/M
By members of SAMOIS.
This book can be Borrowed for free via Internet Archive , and downloaded for free via middleandring.nocities.org
Book option 2
Secretary by Mary Gaitskill 1988 , widely available as a penguin classic
Life drawing, but make it Erotic.
Join us for a relaxed and welcoming sketch session featuring live models in fetish-inspired styling and themed poses. Each session explores the beauty of the human form through a mix of short and long poses, giving you plenty of opportunities to experiment, learn and create.
Whether you’ve never picked up a pencil or you’ve been drawing for years, everyone is welcome. Embrace your curiosity and enjoy a creative space where self-expression and alternative culture come together.
An open table discussion is like an old school munch except with pre-determined topics. This is to encourage not only learning, but growth- Sharing personal stories or details is optional, participation is encouraged, curiosity and an open mind is mandatory. Healthy debates and discussions are also encouraged, delivered in a contained and respectful manner. Each discussion group will have an introductory ice breaker topic, a skill based topic, and a more thought based topic. There will always be time at the end for Newbies to ask a question / Elders give advice, and free chat if time permits.
This Open Table Discussion will be run by Violet Devine and the topics will be:
-Leather, Latex or Lace; what’s your sensation?
-Getting wrapped up in mummification
-Kink in life, how does that look and what that means to us
-Newbies ask a question / Elders give a piece of advice you wish you had at the beginning of your journey / Free chat time if there is time left over
Calling all nerdy kinky folk to the Dungeon
Ready yourself for Dungeons & Dragons with a kinky twist.
Experienced Dungeons Masters, Venus and Silhouet will take turns guiding you through thrilling one shot adventures with kinky/horny/sexy themes.
These sessions have limited ticketing, with spots for 5 players per session. Snacks and light refreshments will be provided.
Support small local Perth stores and enjoy a curated sponsored raffle run by a local Perth business. Raffle winner is drawn at 10:10pm
This Releases Raffle run by: Play and Pleasure
Leather care and Bootblacking is a history rich and meticulous art. Bootblacks not only preserving boots, garments, and other gear, but play a central role of Leather communities as oral historians. Treat this highly ritualised service exchange with respect, it is customary to tip.
Bring along any clean clothes, lingerie, shoes, unopened products, kink items, unused adult items etc. for the community and grab yourself something while you are there! (you do not have to leave to take, however contribution is encouraged to keep it going)
Oboedire is extremely excited to bring to you The Community Library
This Community Library allows us to upkeep physical collections of Kink, BDSM, Disabled and Queer literature that is becoming increasingly hard to source. We have pulled together pieces of our personal collections to bring together a community pool where you can donate, and borrow books free of charge
Digital Library Catalogue link coming soon
Sponsored by Spicy Sites.
Community Nights
Ticket PricingCuriositas semper grata est. Curiosity is always welcome.
Accessible Community
Creating inclusive, community driven BDSM experiences that encourage learning, confidence, and authentic connection.
Oboedire Community
Curated Collaboration : Our community events are curated collaborations, Teaming up with other aligned facilitators, groups and vendors offering unique skills, wares and access to other event options.
Encouraged to authentically grow: Our community events are not just tailored to fun and entertainment, but to encourage growth of networks and support systems. From hearing new viewpoints, making new connections, and from peer skills and resources sharing.
Strong focus on Accessibility: Oboedire is committed to curating learning environments that are welcoming, inclusive and accessible.
We pride ourselves on being able to offer modifications, alterations, and adjustments across our education, advice and venues.
