OBOEDIRE POTENTIAL CONNECTIONS

A curated night for finding your people.
40 people MAX. Three structured rounds. One room full of possibilities.

What if meeting people at kink events didn’t have to be awkward as fuck?

Oboedire Potential Connections is a curated kink social designed to help you meet interesting people you might actually want to know.

This isn’t traditional speed dating, and it’s not just another night of standing around wondering who you should approach. Before the event, you’ll tell us a little about yourself, what you’re interested in and what kinds of connections you’re open to making. We’ll use that information to thoughtfully curate the experience.

Then we’ll throw you straight into deep end of fun:

90-SECOND CONNECTIONS
We’ll kick things off old-school.
40 people. 20 on each side. 90 seconds per conversation. (low mobility on one stationary side, only the other side will rotate)
You’ll go down the line, meeting everyone for a quick first impression.
No awkward five-minute dates. No pressure to make a decision on the spot.
Just 90 seconds to discover whether someone makes you curious.
And because we believe chemistry isn’t always predictable, the questions will range from kink and connection to personality, humour and the occasional completely ridiculous wildcard.

WE SLOW IT RIGHT DOWN
After you’ve met everyone, and had a little break to catch your breath, we’ll move into two curated group sessions, putting you together with people we’ve identified as potentially interesting matches based on your registration.
You’ll have more time to actually talk, discover shared interests and see whether that initial spark has somewhere to go.

THEN WE GET RIIIGHT OUT OF YOUR WAY.
We’ll give you time to breathe, grab a drink and mingle.
The final hour is completely yours, dedicated to open connection.
No rotations.
No prompts.
No assigned conversations.
Just music, drinks, platters and a room full of people you’ve already had the chance to meet.
Find the person you couldn’t stop thinking about.
Go back to someone you clicked with.
Meet someone you didn’t expect.
Flirt. Talk. Connect. Exchange details.
Whatever happens naturally!

WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?
You don’t need to be looking for a relationship.
You might be hoping to find:
-A date
-A play partner
-A potential dynamic
-New friends
-Your kinky people
-A mentor
-Events buddy
-Someone completely unexpected
There’s no “right” kind of connection to make.
The point is simply to create more opportunities for genuine ones.

Come curious. Leave connected.

*You must be a GREEN member to attend this event

*BYO alcohol for this one, we may add a drinks package in future if there is enough interest AND responsibility